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Originally Posted by WarmFuzzySocks
((Summer))
Can you contact food programs in your community or ask for temporary assistance through your church? Community assistance programs often have people who can help navigate all of the ins and outs of programs available in your city/county/state in order to get temporary assistance with some bills, whether it's financial assistance or help/advice figuring out how to work with mortgage and utility companies (for example).
And I am sorry your h is using the "doesn't really mean it" excuse to treat you poorly. He's a grownup. There's no excuse for that. If he doesn't mean it, he needs to stop saying it.  |
Agreed on this--see if there's a local food bank (I know our county has one), where you can just go get food. You could also apply for SNAP (formerly known as food stamps--it's now a debit card). And ask your church for help. And might either of you be eligible for unemployment benefits? Just reach out for whatever you can. Possibly Medicaid for medical expenses? Those resources are there for people in your situation.
Also look into the mortgage modifications. For medical expenses, see if you can get on a payment plan. With your T, ask if they can see you for a reduced fee or late you pay later.
And it's not right for your H to take his stress out on you by calling you mean things.