Hmmm...

My opinion might offend you.
Just letting you know.

I think your husband has lied to you. I couldn't trust a man who has covered his path, in my eyes this is deceit. Trust is the number one factor in a relationship. If there is no trust, it'll eventually crumble.

Your husband may say she was a prostitute, I'm guessing she wasn't. He wants the woman to look bad because she is "disrupting" his childless existence. What if you become pregnant? Will you become a prostitute too?

Asking for money to care for his OWN child is not called extortion, it's called child support. Again, the words have been completely blown out of context...prostitute, extortion...illegitimate child.

The impression I've gotten about your husband in this situation is not a good one.

You don't have children, so you will not fully understand single parenting and being lost and forgotten like some bastard child...the mistake. It angers me that men can actually convince their woman that these were "mistakes". Women should know better, get a real sense on the situation, don't just rely on your husbands.

I hope he actually pays the woman he had created a life with, I hope he acknowledges his child....