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Originally Posted by Lrad123
. . .This time he said, “because I won’t always be there.” I obviously know this already and am not sure what that has to do with his not replying to my emails. Given my history, I’d think that occasionally sending a brief reply might be a good thing. I tend not to ask for much. . . I guess I feel disappointed by his blanket statement that he won’t reply at all.
. . . I guess part of it is that I can’t help but interpret it as him pushing me away a bit or thinking im not worth the effort.
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"Given your history", you didn't get the connection you want/needed growing up? And did you feel, as a child, that you weren't worth people's effort?
Sounds like your T may be frustrating your wish/impulse for more connection (with him, right now) but still conveys that you're worth the effort?