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Originally Posted by Anne2.0
So I would say, probably something I've said before to you, perhaps less focus on what he does and more inward focus on understanding yourself and sharing yourself with him.
Distracting yourself with b.s. is a good way to do that.
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I appreciate your thoughts, but am not sure I understand what you’re saying. Wouldn’t my sharing how I feel about the email non-responses be considered “a more inward focus” on understanding myself? Or are you saying it’s a big distraction? I mean, I am not trying to get him to change his mind at this point, but am fully admitting that I’m overreacting and trying to figure out why. That seems inward focused to me. Do you disagree?