What exactly do you believe your husband is trying to convince you of? He's treating me condescendingly that I'm much sicker then I really am, blaming .ME for his mistrust (he's not sleeping because I don't). It's the way he says things not what he says. He doesn't outright lie but goes right to the edge. The sucky thing is he's a great people person so I look like the crazy one. He purposely does things that make me rely on him.

ETA: I was just informed he is becoming hypomanic. This explains a lot. My feelings of him saying and doing things that are off to make me question my sanity.