Sometimes people who complain about tough love and criticism on PC (not you OP) on one subforum, post very harsh comments to other posters on different sub forums! Hard to believe it’s even the same person.

Personally. I believe if one reads posts that are too harsh or appear that way, it could be reported. Then moderators assess it. People could be also placed on ignore. There are features for it on PC. If unsure how to proceed one can ask a moderator