Thanks for all your replies. In fact my T and I have had a bit of a rupture (not about the poem), and it is that that I wish she would give me an apology over. I thought she would have been the kind of T who would apologise. I’ve pretty much decided to talk to her one more time, and if she doesn’t express anything about her part in it, then I’m going to quit. She’s been so good in other ways, but this rupture has had a big impact on me, I feel really low, I think it is because I feel invalidated.