are you married to her & in it for all it's worth or are seeking attention from others on line "during times of inadequacy" .? what type of attention? and what is the next step? are you going to take steps to meet someone to help with those feelings?

if I was your wife that would piss me off .

time to make a decision...either you are married to her and take it for all it is worth, or delete the accounts, get I to therapy & fight to save your marriage..because if you didn't i'd be walking out the door and you could keep those accts for all it's worth.

what is more important to you?