So sorry you are going through this Confused1991 No wonder you were drawn to someone new! Your husband is abusive toward you. It is not your fault and you do not deserve it. I agree with the other folks who recommended a lawyer consult and organizations who offer shelter and services to women and children dealing with abusive men.

No judgment from us here. We are sorry you are in such pain and want you to feel better. You deserve to feel happy and safe. Try to get some active help in your area. And since you are in a very vulnerable place right now, just keep a little voice in mind reminding you that you and your children are the priority....hard to safely start a new relationship while healing from abuse. I'm not telling you what to do by any means, just a caring tip from someone who has been there. Peace and hope to you!