I thought it was a great, healthy relationship before he left for college. He always told me about what was going on in his life, asked for advice regarding any issues. He never didn’t come through with whatever he needed to.

As soon as he left it was like he never looked back.

Of course, I am happy he is thriving and wish the best for him. Do you all think I am being unreasonable in feeling abandoned? Was I under some misconception that a child grows up and has a life of their own, and they never call their parents again?

Gosh, talk about empty nest syndrome! Wouldn’t you think your kid would miss you just a little and call once in a while?

At least one son hasn’t abandoned me. I didn’t guilt him into calling, either. We mutually keep in touch and it’s great to hear about his weekly happenings.