It never ceases to amaze me how much expectations people heap onto others. It’s self-centered and completely unreasonable. Good for you to tell her no. But you still walked away with a yucky feeling because the interaction was just ridiculous. I like the suggestion to add a disclaimer to your blog. Next time should this problem arise at least you could point to that. Still... I find it so weird she placed demands on you based on a blog. I read people’s blogs and websites all the time and it never occurs to me to thrust myself unreasonably on them.