It’s wonderful to have found support through PC! We are here! We are here!

His comment about the photos was awful and extremely hurtful. As is other things you mentioned.

I’ve stayed in a less than ideal marriage. I’ve been really expressive about my feelings, really quite a B to him- opposite of how you are tip toe sweet. Still, what is bad is still bad.

Hopefully things can get better. Keep posting, reading the psych articles, maybe get him to counseling.