Thanks, both of you.... this is reassuring. Cyrano - great to hear about it from a man's point of view (but maybe having to wait a YEAR!?!?!?!?! ye gods!!!!! ), especially about the repurposing and fear about the baby being involved. Rainbowzz - thanks for understanding. I've definitely felt more hormonal lately. During my first two trimesters, my hormones felt completely stable - if anything, I was just cheerful ALL of the time instead of MOST of the time, despite all of the crap that was happening with my dad's cancer and death. But now I'm finding myself to be much more emotional - I cried twice during our first childbirth class, moved by the videos of women giving birth, and I'm having a lot of nostalgia and longing for... I don't know. Something. I'm doing a lot of meditation, exercise, healthy eating so I'm not sure what else I can do to keep things level. Well, yes I do - getting laid would sure help. Sigh.

Thanks again, both of you