I would point out that I asked a question, I didn't make assumptions. And it's not up to me what you share or don't share on this board. It's an interesting style of argument to bring up way late in the story that you've been in therapy for five years and use it as a way to argue for your confirmed position.

I just know that I've popped into a happier place in my life, and arguing with people on this board is a whole lot less interesting than it used to be. I have no stake in what you do or don't do in therapy, but I think you'd benefit from taking more responsibility for your communication and taking a look at how what you say and do, or don't say and do, has an impact on others. Because you are the only person that you can change. If you think your therapist needs to change-- which may be the case-- then run out of there.