Sounds like you were married and started a family at a normal age. By the time I was 24, I realized yes, I have minor ADHD problems that were not an interference with my life at the time. Now that I am in my early 30s, surprisingly they effect me more than ever. I do my color coding, note-taking and normal organization and hope to remove all distractions soon so I may go back to living a normal and peaceful way. Life is also more difficult not having the same social groups to go out with and enjoy the subtitles of life with, but alas, moving on with my day has become easier not having to constantly be checking in with everybody.