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Originally Posted by Betty_Banana
I personally think you should be careful about all the info you are getting online from different forums and being so easily influenced Dnester.It's really only adding to your problems and confusion rather than helping.
If we, the members here,are saying conflicting emotions are normal and members on another forum are saying that's just a dissociative thing,how do you know who's right and who's wrong, what's true and what's not?
I personally think(I am saying personally because it's just my own opinion and you can take it or leave it) you would do so much better by presenting yourself,your struggles,symptoms and even all your concerns to your treatment providers.It shouldn't matter what you read online, what anyone else experiences or doesn't experience or even what anyone says,none of it's really going to help you.What is going to help you is making the decision to get the help/treatment you need instead of trying so hard to figure everything out yourself.
I am saying this because I did notice this same topic elsewhere and you were given different replies/info than you got here.Then you posted something that you read there as if it was for sure right Then went back there and posted what you read here.That can't be helpful for you at all.It has to just make it all even more confusing for you and has to be causing even more problems for you.And that's why I am choosing to not give my input anymore.I don't want to add to this harm that's being done,that you're doing to yourself with all of this
I wish you well on your healing journey.
Hugs
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I too have noticed the cross postings on this same and other issues by you dnestor here and on other websites, and also noticed the taking of what others here are telling you and posting about it there and bringing what other say elsewhere to hear.
you are relatively new so wanted to point out something... though its a risk everyone takes when posting online some sites do have rules about this kind of thing.
which is why I do change my answers to these questions and sometimes what I post will conflict from website to website. I mean if someone is going to do this then obviously they want different style of answers so I just give them answers that they may want to hear but may not actually go with DID. sometimes I will admit to a problem but the reader doesnt know that, that problem of mine is not a dissociative one, that it may be part of any one of my mental disorders.
example on one site I did say that my body goes through jerking and such but neglected to inform the members on that site that I have a neuromuscular disease that causes this not a dissociative.
my point is dnestor you may want to check out the rules of all the sites that you are a member to make sure that this cross posting of yours and others that you are doing doesnt violate the rules and accidentally get you into trouble, and you might want to rely more on your own treatment providers instead of relying on your researching on the internet. there is no promise that what you are finding on the internet is true, real or you may not know another posters full medical / mental history so you may not realize what they are posting goes with a different disorder or disease then what you think it may go to.
I think your confusion and struggles will settle down if you follow what your treatment providers said... not to rely so much on the internet forums all around the net, and follow your treatment plans.
only your treatment providers can really help you with all this stuff. all else well because the internet is all around the whole world you are going to find all this conflicting information and theres no promise that the information is real. even the information that I supply is different in some locations and treatment providers.