Hi, TishaBuv.

I get what you mean. My parents kind of felt that way about me, but it doesn't mean I wasn't thinking about them.

Also, there's friends of mine that I won't talk to for months, even years. But when I see them again, or reach out to them, they're always happy to hear from me.

With social media and texting being so common, I think it's easy to expect instant, or at least regular, communication from people. Especially those you love. But what usually happens is people get busy and they can't get to everything right now. In other words, don't overthink it! You have better things to occupy your time.

That being said, if you feel ignored or, as they say nowadays, "ghosted" by him, communicate that to him. And I agree with anyone who suggested not giving him more money. If he's old enough to get married, he should be somewhat financially stable. If you feel like you're getting taking advantage of, please tell him.