Hi, yes, I have been on ADHD off and on since I was 26, I am now 52. I have a poor self esteem, however, I am not like I was at 26. I think I know what the issue may be but I can't seem to change it. We are going to counseling right now. My husband has some PTSD and other issues from his 1st marriage. His wife took his child away and took all of the money he was saving for a vacation. That was over 35 years ago but he is still dealing with some issues.