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Originally Posted by blackocean
She shouldn’t have made empty promises to her clients who struggle with abandonment traumas and all that.
That’s messed up and has nothing to do with her right to move and make decisions for her life. She’s failing you and I understand your feelings completely
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This is a good point. My T seems very careful in not making specific promises to me. He'll say "I have no intention of leaving you." But when I've mentioned certain things I'm concerned could happen, like if he chose to move, decided to focus solely on one of his current specialties, etc., he said those could happen, but he has no plans to move.
Part of me wants him to just reassure me that none of theme will happen (well, he can't know about the thing in trigger warnings), but I also appreciate his not making promises he's not sure he could keep.