I'm so sorry you have to put up with such TERRIBLE behavior, Medusax! I agree with what all the other wise, wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! Perhaps it is time to just let him know HWO MUCH his behavior is bothering you! I'd suggest to just talk to him about ALL of this and see how it goes from there! Hopefully he'll listen to what you have to say and understand what you mean! If he refuses to listen to you or to understand what you say, then I'd suggest to just REFUSE to get him any help! You have EVERY RIGHT to stand up for yourself if you feel like you're not being treated correctly, after all! Just remember that you're important as well and that YOU MATTER, ok? Make him understand that you WON'T accept being treated this way! We're here for you if you need ANY help and support, ok? YOU ARE IMPORTANT! Sending many hugs to you, Medusax!