Something has been going on in my relationship that has been bothering me lately. I feel as though my boyfriend does not talk to me about major life decisions that I feel I should have a part in.
For example he got offered a really good job with full benefits, 401 K, his own truck, and the company would supply his tools. Under any other circumstances I would be all over this and would be happy, but there is a problem. He did not talk to me about this at all.
This job would probably consist of him working major overtime and having to travel out of state. I just do not know how ok I am with that...and it makes me feel like a wench. We are not living together and with me working crazy hours we barely have enough time for the two of us.
I guess that this would be have been so bad if he talked to me about this. I feel left out of this choice and it hurts...and now I am defensive.
Any advice?

Jessica