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Originally Posted by coolibrarian
You are NOT pathetic. You are in pain. You're grieving. You lost two people and you miss them terribly.
What are you going to do about it?
You need to do grief work, and I believe that Emdr T can help you with that.
You think you're pathetic because you need to be comforted? You want to be loved, you want to be taken care of. There's nothing pathetic about that.
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What am I going to do? Stay really busy that is all I can do.
I am not sure how much Emdt T can help me with grief work. She knows what the books say but I dont think she really understands it. Her parents and the grandparents who she was really close to still are alive. She hasnt ever lost. anybody she was really close to.
I feel pathetic because I am in my late 40s and want to need nobody. I have an amazing husband and children who would do anything for me...The people I really want and need can no longer help me.