[QUOTE=divine1966;6539318]It sounds like you have two guys in your life who don’t treat you well and in fact are taking advantage of you. Your husband and this male friend. They show no respect for you. I really hope you see a therapist to help you get to the bottom of your allowing people, and in this case particularly men, to treat you poorly.[/

Men, in general, treat women "poorly" on many different levels. Some all out abuse (which is NOT what I am experiencing) all the way down to blithely ignoring their discomforts. Update: We talked. He was upset and stressed over some things in his life. I understand this. And for MY part, I was seething over not having any time to myself that day. He is, for the most part, very appreciative towards me. One of the "better" ones I've encountered.