Hello pfoel: I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central.  There are forums, here on PC, dedicated to the subjects of anxiety & depression. Here are links to these forums:
https://psychcentralforums.com/anxie...c-and-phobias/
https://psychcentralforums.com/depression/
I don't think there is anything I can offer personally with regard to your concern.  However here are links to 4 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of relationship OCD:
Is It Anxiety or OCD?
Relationship OCD
Relationship OCD and the Doors of Uncertainty
https://psychcentral.com/lib/when-oc...-relationship/
I hope you find PC to be of benefit. 
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