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Originally Posted by here today
For what it is worth -- very well nothing, maybe less than that -- I find this statement extremely harsh and unkind. It hurts me. . .that's certainly my issue, because I'm not Lrad. Maybe it doesn't hurt Lrad, maybe it's helpful to her. But if it were me, I would have to numb out what feels like attacks, and so wouldn't be able to process what you may be trying to say, with what may be an intent to be helpful.
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I said what I said to Lrad because I thought there was some possibility it might be useful to her, and maybe not saying it would be the bigger problem. I think there are a wide range of acceptable ways to say what you want to say. You have standards and I have my own. If I were to answer you in a thread I might say things a different way. I personally would not feel a need to scold someone who tried to explain her motivation because it isn't up to your standards and it wasn't written to you, but I take the approach here to take what works for me and ignore the rest.