How is telling the truth an attack? Telling somebody, "your a liar" - thats an attack. Telling somebody "i dont believe you about this" is not the same as saying "your a liar". You are just telling what you hear. If the person is not ready to hear it, as often happens on these pages, it still doesnt make it an attack. Intent (motive) is lacking. It may be a venial sin, but the lady's not for hanging.