Hi nightwhistle. First off you did not deserve that kind of treatment. Just because you don’t party doesn’t mean you’re a snooze! And being ghosted doesn’t mean you’re boring either. Those people don’t deserve you because they didn’t have the decency to be honest and human with you. Instead they chose to dispense of you in a thoughtless and heartless manner.

Secondly, a relationship will not bring you greater happiness or self confidence. This must come from and be developed within. I always advocate to become happy with yourself and your life first before seeking a new relationship. All too often we look to a relationship to fulfill what is missing in ourselves or our lives.

So my advice is to find your own happiness. Work on building your self confidence. Pursue any interests and goals you may have. Nurture and develop your friendships. Build your life out more so that you do feel happy, all on your own, and so that your life feels meaningful and has purpose.

(((((Hugs))))