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Originally Posted by bpforever1
I got off the dating app. I really had no intention of meeting anybody. I just wanted to chat with others. I know this is not nice so I got off and hope to stay away from the dating apps. I dated a while back may be about 4 years ago. I met some people and did not like anybody near my hometown. I did communicate with one nice man but he seemed more interested in what I have and not me. So, I think it is best for me to stay away from these sites. I am really not in the position to date now. I am still recovering from my psychotic break and have no money nor transportation. I don't think it is wise to bother others when their intentions are entirely different from mine. I should not have bothered to write this thread but realized afterwards that I just wanted to chat with others.
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Nothing wrong at all with just wanting to chat with others without sex or commitment Bpforever. I think it's very astute of you to note that dating sites aren't the way for you to meet that goal. Have you heard of MeetUp groups? There are lots of them all over the place. They are not dating groups...just fun ways to socialize with people via shared interests. All sorts of ideas...you can check it out online if you are interested. It's a non-pressured way to make friends. Volunteering is another option. The satisfaction of helping others while also having connection without the expectation of dates or sex.
I wish you healing energy while you continue to recover from your break
