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Old May 27, 2019, 03:32 PM
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Originally Posted by SilverTrees View Post
Have you told your father not to kiss your neck? If you feel uncomfortable, then yes it is a problem. Because you have a right to feel safe and comfortable regardless of what others' intentions may or may not be.

First, you can tell the individual (father or anyone else who crosses a line) it's not okay.

Second, remind/mark the boundary one more time if necessary.

Third, if they continue to cross the line I would no longer spend time with them because they appear unwilling to respect your clearly marked boundaries.

My above three steps would not apply to criminal acts...those need to be reported to the police and safe distance is the immediate priority.
Even though it creeps me out I have not said anything to him about the stuff he does. 1) because I dont think he thinks its creepy so I dont want to hurt him because I love him 2) because I dont want to piss him off because I am scared it would turn violent. I know he was sexually violent with my mother and also just because I dont want him mad at me. I live in a group home that has 90 people there. Alot of them have major issues. I like to get away as much as I can.
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