Roachbourne, what do you think would make anyone believe you were a horrible person who doesn’t deserve to be helped? It feels to me as an outsider such an extreme reaction that would be totally out of balance with the rather minor long-ago offense.

Do you see the difference between your own actions and those of the people highlighted by the #metoo movement? In those cases the transgressors were adults with power over their victims, not teenagers clumsily learning to navigate social and sexual mores.