i know a girl who decided to embrace losing her "hoo-hoo" haha. her and her husband went to a photographer and had a session of them 2 while she was pregnant. there were some very sexy pictures in there thats kind of a reminder of "just because im prego doesnt mean im not hot anymore!" she looks soooo good in them. think hed be into something like that?

and maybe we should switch. i have NO sex drive at all! Ever since my freshman year of college I have worked 40+ hours a week, sometimes 2 jobs, while going to school full time (somehow I still have a 3.75.. dont ask me how though). so my sex drive is gooooooone. when i stopped birth control it was like a shot of wanting sex all the time but that didnt last more than a month.

and, from experience, ive learned that its not necessarily what your significant other thinks or says about you/to you. i noticed that when guys hit on me during the day at school or at work, i want sex more. (not with them, but with my boyfriend haha). maybe he needs something to boost his own confidence? he might just not feel very good about himself for whatever variety of reasons. i had to practically trick my boyfriend into buying new clothes so he would feel good about himself. trick him! lol