Hi, I have five kids who are all potty trained and I still don't know what I'm doing. Here are a few ideas though, they make children books about potty training you can read to her. One of my favorites and it can be effective is panties with cartoon character, it usually gets them excited to use the potty. Oh and my sister made a sticker chart for her daughter everytime she uses the potty she gets a sticker, seems to work for her. Good luck