I agree with the others that counseling is needed. Optimally, a bipolar person would be with a partner that would recognize the symptoms and help to diffuse a situation like this. Instead, your husband escalated it. Does he understand your diagnosis? It would be helpful for him to learn how it manifests so he can tell the difference between your normal actions and those precipitated by your disease. Maybe he would then find it easier to walk away or even help you recognize when you need help.