When I was in school, I had this temporary position as the moderator because our class was noisy. I wasn't controlling but I told them to keep quiet. They treated me like the bad guy... Again, I wasn't trying to control them. I was doing my job and telling people to quiet down...because our noisy behavior got us into trouble. I just quitted because it was too much for me...
I just hate it when people see me as the bad guy for doing something I have to do...