I believe you have NO OBLIGATION TO TAKE RESPONSABILITY for what HE needs to do, toughbird! He needs to get professional help if he's struggling so badly! You certainly can't be expected to take care of him at your own expense and you can't "save him" all by yourself! I've quickly read your threads and from what I understand HE'S the one who told you he didn't want to be contacted again so I really don't see any reason at all why you should contact him back once again? I'd suggest to just DEFINITELY cut off contacts with him! You've alread rang him and he didn't reply to you! It seems like you already know whether he's truly interested in you or not! I DO believe that your friend was a bit unrespectful by getting upset at you for YOUR decision especially by telling you that "it was never about you!"! What does that mean? It IS about you as well! A relationship is made of two people after all! I'd suggest NOT to listen to him if I have to be honest with you! I hope things will get better soon for you! Please keep us updated on your situation and let us know how things are going for you, ok? WE ALL DO CARE ABOUT YOU! I PROMISE YOU ALL OF THAT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE! PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OF THAT AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN BECAUSE IT IS TRUE! Please keep us updated AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN IF YOU WANT TO, OK? WISH YOU GOOD LUCK! LET US KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING FOR YOU! SENDING MANY HUGS TO YOU, TOUGHBIRD!