Ahh Wmd thanks..church yes i have thought of, college no, when I
say reliable I mean someone I can trust to split expenses, pay rent, etc....(Financially reliable to help out).......

As far as if they suffered from Depression, anxiety, etc...wouldn't matter...I have my own mental health issues to. Thats why I'm asking others here for there suggestions.

Its just alcohol I choose not to be around to much temptation,
and(again nothing against smokers, its just I am sensitive to 2nd hand smoke)...But I like the Church Idea...I will keep that
one in mind.... I do go to church occasionally.