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Originally Posted by ennie
Sounds like she may has a superiority complex.
One thing I learned about people who cross boundaries is that there has to be consequences for their actions. So next time, you can give her a warning. And if she does it again the next, next time, you can stop answering your phone for a while. If she wants your friendship, she needs to treat you with respect. She can't have it both ways: Maintain friendship with you and disrespect you. These two things cannot co-exist.
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Thanks, Ennie.
She does have a superiority complex. She's always been like this. I cannot be so cut and dry with these two, as they are my oldest college friends. I would never cut off friendship..... as it is, we don't speak or see each other often. One of them, I hadn't spoken to in over a year on the phone.
I just need to be much stronger with my boundaries, which is something I am working on.