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Originally Posted by Lrad123
He thought maybe we were re-enacting something (maybe something with my parents) where I’d express a need for connection and not be heard. I said I didn’t need that any more and I didn’t want to give him the power to do that to me. He never once discouraged me from sending emails. In fact, he reminded me that that was our agreement- that I could send them and that he’d read them.
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Did he have any suggestions on how to work through this if it was a re-enactment? It would seem to me that you knowing he reads them without any kind of response at all is not enough for you to feel heard. I highly doubt I would feel heard by know that my T reads my emails.