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Originally Posted by Lrad123
I’m not sure about this. Are you saying that if I meet someone in my daily life who is kind, thoughtful and puts others first I can assume they were neglected as a child? Because those all seem like good qualities.
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I don't think sacrificing oneself and people pleasing is being kind, generous, or noble. It's done out of fear and need for approval for the person who is the people pleaser, for your needs, not theirs.
There are worse effects from trauma. I can post some links anout it if you're interested.