I did not show up for therapy yesterday. The therapist called the university that I go to and they sent cops to do a wellness check on me. To top it off, she contacted a friend of mine who is not listed as an emergency contact. This friend joined a therapy session on one occasion. The therapist must have still had this friend's contact on her Skype. And she also contacted the spouse of my friend and left him a voice message on Skype. Is that appropriate?

I understanding contacting my university. But contacting a friend who I didn't list as an emergency contact and even looking up her spouse and contacting him? That doesn't seem right. How did she even get his name?