This question seems disingenuous to me. Somehow i dont think respect is the issue here. Anything else jump out at you from the 17 pages?

If you are going to ask, what right does she have? I would ask, what right do you have? The answer for me is, it's the same right. Stop pretending you are not in this and suffering together. Your pain may be different but it is still shared. You are let down, but she let you down - do you think she feels joy at that? Would you?

She is not a robot. You are not a robot. Sometimes people fail to live up to expectations. Then what? LIFE HAPPENS.