It sounds painful. I think with ruptures sometimes the thing to do is keep talking through them, or take a break like Elio did, which also seems really helpful. I think it's hard to talk through a rupture because of all the feelings involved and the emotions being hurt and sensitive (at least that is how I would be). But it seems like the way forward. I hope you can get things figured out with this T and move forward in your therapy. HUGS Kit