I just wanted to say I'm sorry and feel free to vent away or send a PM if you ever want to talk.

My husband and I have been through some rough times like that, but made it through to the other side and things are good - so it is possible to turn things around. In his case, he had to hit a pretty bad point and realize that he needed help. He's been seeing a psychiatrist and is in therapy, which has given some positive results. Of course, he had to be the one to decide to seek out therapy. I could suggest it, but I couldn't force him to go.

Hugs!