I have never seen you post anything horrible Fuzzy.

I fear that may on occasion have hurt people in the past when not using enough kind words to soften the blow of a tricky subject.

Honesty is not horrible. The truth can help someone if delivered in a kind way.

I now try to plan in advance to make sure that my true intent is visible when I speak.

For this reason I hate talking when in deep pain.

Much respect to all.