I am looking for answers, education about what is or isn’t healthy. I have learned a lot! I am looking for a consensus from a body of people, because I think this is a good indicator of society, regarding issues which tells me what is the norm of what people generally think. I am looking for truly constructive criticism when I am wrong, but not to be made to feel like I fell into a tank of hungry sharks! I am looking for validation and support because I feel so alone I have no one else to get it from!

Great question, what is the difference between constructive criticism and just being judgmental and discouraging?