I was never ghosted by girlfriends, only by a couple of boyfriends. But I did have them drop me, inseparable best friends! I took the hint and just let it go. It did hurt and I don’t understand what I did to cause it. I think they simply found other people they liked better and simply stopped wanting to hang out with me... after being inseparable!

This one former bff also made a strange and snide comment to me, too, when I ran into her after not having been in her life for 20 years. We had been like sisters, I loved her, we never had a disagreement over anything. I’ve had this happen a lot with people and I don’t understand why. Did they have secret jealousy? Why would they give a dig?

If you are experiencing the same, I am beginning to think there is some element to people I have not understood. Self care and find new, healthy friends is my best sentiment to you.