O.k. so here's the deal. I've been divorced from my ex since January. It was a whirlwind divorce. Filed on the 18th and approved the same day. I'm still having issues with it. You know the what if and if I only kind of thing. The divorce was brought on by her getting caught cheating with her co-worker. I still have questions to ask and pain to heal, but I'm at a loss here. What questions should I avoid? What or how do I deal with all this jumbled up thoughts in my head still. I try to hide all the hurt I feel from all this. I know it's not healthy and its effected all different aspects of my life. I really could use a little bit of guidance here.