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Old May 31, 2019, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted by unaluna View Post
Its not about blaming parents. As i was neglected, I was called a crybaby, so i called other kids a crybaby - if not out loud, then in my head. So im not an empathetic person. They get caring and sympathy from their parents, but my family says thats not needed - so who do i believe? And who do i emulate?
Maybe we are not using the term blame in the same way. I would say you have a lot of posts where you blame your mother.

But even without blame, I don't understand what difference it would make. One is able to choose differently from one's parents regardless of the parent's consent or ideas around it.
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