@SilverTrees, one of your posts got me pondering about this.

To all at PC:

Do you consider a person's actions against someone else as a warning sign not to get (or remian) close to that person?

For example, if you start to see a very nasty side of your girlfriend when she breaks up with her partner, do you think:

"Well, she is not personally doing this to me, so I'm safe," or do you see that as a red flag that demonstrates her character coming to surface?

Would you ignore a person's vindictive actions against someone else as if you are an exception and immune from such person's harm?

Or would you see that as a proof of what she is capable of, if things were to not work out between you two? Would it be a good enough reason to start guarding yourself by being cautious with her?