maybe she made that comment because she felt awkward . sometimes in a weird situation people say stupid things. not meaning to but because they slip out of our mouths before the mind engages.

I've had people ghost me...it's their issue not mine. hurts for a bit but then i figure it's their loss. again, not mine. if they don't have the backbone to at least say what is bothering them and want to work it out, well then really, it isn't worth the friendship. some i have sent notes to, some not.